Messy, Meaningful Decisions
Let’s set the scene..
You’re sitting in a room—maybe it’s a family meeting, maybe it’s with friends, or maybe it’s a work discussion. You’ve earned the title of “the responsible one,” and now... all eyes are on you. The issue has been laid out, and suddenly, the pressure is on your shoulders to make a decision about something complicated. Everyone’s relieved that it’s finally being discussed, but no one wants to be the one to step up and make the call. Well, guess who’s quietly been handed that task?
You.
You can feel the weight of everyone’s expectations, the unspoken “figure it out” hanging in the air. The problem is clear, but the solution? Not so much. And now, just when you’re trying to wrap your head around it, they want an answer—RIGHT NOW.
Sound familiar?
It’s tough. It’s nearly impossible to make a thoughtful, confident decision under that kind of pressure, especially when the stakes feel bigger than just your own happiness. Yet the question remains: What will you do?
There will be moments when you're standing at a crossroads, faced with a choice that could change everything. And you’re forced to ask: Am I going to disappoint others—or disappoint myself?
Maybe you’ve had an idea that lights you up—something bold, creative, or unconventional. You share it with someone close, hoping they’ll understand or support you. But instead, you’re met with doubt:
“That’s not a real career.”
“You should do something more practical.”
It’s heavy. And it’s real.
You may find yourself stuck, wondering: Do I follow my intuition, or follow the script everyone else seems to expect from me?
I created a workbook designed to help you pause, reflect, and make decisions that are aligned with you and your core values. With every decision, there may be moments of disappointment from others—but there will also be clarity for you. And if, after reflecting, you find that new information has come to light and you can make a better decision, don’t worry! There’s always room for adjustment.
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